Life Lessons as a CIO
I have spent the past two years as a Chief Innovation Officer and Director in the hope of making the deputy general manager role. This resulted in spending long hours at work, often sixty-five to hundred-hour work weeks, doing undesirable work, and a lot of time without the family. What did it get me? An excuse from the new general manager was that the customer decided to go in another direction, but I could stay in a lesser role and do all the work I currently do. I respectfully declined, left quietly, and planned my next role in life. Even though the outcome was disappointing at the time, in the long run, the lessons learned allowed for a growth position.
Here are a few hard-fought life lessons, and I fully understand that hind sights are all 20/20.
Life Lessons
1. Was the long hours worth it? Yes, because it allowed me to gain valuable insights and be marketable in my next and future roles. The unpaid hours were an education to allow me to be a better leader in the future. The reversal of this lesson is that I should have been more accountable to myself for my progress versus relying on a corporate evaluation system.
2. Was the extra work of taking the hard roles or the undesirable projects? Yes, because that is where the growth occurs. It is necessary to do the work. The reversal of the lesson is Pareto’s Principle. 80% of the work will be done by only 20% of the workforce. Management will trust the work to be done by this 20% because it is easier than managing the remaining 80%. The increased involvement of HR in day-to-day management will also make it difficult to push out the non-performers. This quandary results in the 20% that is doing the work will become overworked. If you think you are in the 20%, understand your worth.
3. It is necessary to know the difference between management versus leadership. I have met very few Leaders in my life. I have met a lot of Managers. Both managers and leaders have different connotations. Both are human and fallible. Be careful who you decide to follow. The rule’s reversal is that man can not be an island to himself. To be successful in life, vet the right mentors and who you allow in your tribe. This means doing the hard thing of trusting individuals to call you out when you are off the path. I also recommend getting mentors outside the company that does not have bais.
4. Job Is a job as long as you work for someone else. If you are working for yourself or towards your own goals, it is a lifestyle.
5. A company’s political leaning does not match your own; it will be hard to work for that company. I have seen a company dramatically change its culture to the point that it lost very talented people and had to fold a division because it no longer had the talent to win or do the work. The reversal of the rule is all a game. Learning how to play the game or when to step out determines how well you do.
6. Get paid for what you are worth. Payment can mean money, education, and benefits. If you can not find your worth within the company, move on. In the age of stockholder value, a company will do its best for the company. It would help if you did the same for yourself.
This is not the culmination of the life lessons learned. But it is also important to document my lessons for others to learn.
August 24, 2022
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